Impersonal communications with your partner;
Lack of bonding and intimacy;
Becoming non-empathetic human beings;
Becoming indifferent to the real world and real people;
Becoming too attached to the online approval of strangers;
Finding yourself seeking validation from strangers, and
Losing connections to loved ones.
If your relationship is in trouble, and you feel your spouse has checked out, conduct your own personal reality check to find out how much time you spend with your smartphone or computer—and away from your spouse.
When You Realize You Couldn’t Care Less What Your Spouse is Up to, The Relationship is in Trouble
Couples who still have a connection want to hear about their partner’s day, and are truly interested in the things their partner has to say. This is not to say you are still as fascinated by every single word which comes out of his or her mouth as you were in the early days of your relationship, but you are still invested in your conversations and your life together. If, on the other hand, you totally check out when your partner begins telling you about his or her day, this signals their life is no longer of any interest to you. You may feel as though your path in life is far removed from your partner’s life, if not physically, then emotionally.
When it Seems Like All You Do is Argue, Your Relationship is in Trouble
There’s nothing wrong with having an argument from time to time to clear the air, so long as you fight fair by not aiming any particularly low blows at your partner. Communication—not arguing—is the backbone of any healthy relationship, and when your daily communication is lacking, one or both partners may begin to resent the other. When the words “never” and “always” are thrown into the arguments (“you never listen to me”), the partner using those words may have emotionally given up on the relationship. Particularly when your arguments are the same, time and time again, without any resolution to the issues, frequent arguments are a serious warning sign.
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