15 Signs Your Spouse Has Checked Out of the Marriage

Your husband is chronically impatient with you. If the verbal language in your relationship has shifted from kindness to impatience, you should be concerned about your relationship. If you don’t even warrant verbal language, rather you are only receiving eye-rolls or grunts, you should be extremely concerned.
He confides in anybody but you. While it can be perfectly normal—and healthy to have a support network outside the marriage if your spouse begins confiding in anybody but you, you should probably worry. Particularly if he is sharing intimate details of his life and your relationship, then there may be an emotional affair going on. Unfortunately, many men may not notice their spouse has disengaged emotionally—the wife waits, hoping their spouse will notice—and care.
The most revealing signs that a wife has checked out of the marriage include the following:
It seems she has changed, literally overnight. In fact, it probably was not overnight, rather she was ignored and taken for granted for far too long, finally reaching a point of frustration and disillusionment.
When you try to talk to her the best you get is “I don’t want to talk about it.” When a woman is not even willing to talk about a problem, it may be too late—she has already become emotionally distant. While arguing may not be very fun, couples who argue still care enough about their relationship to want to change it and make it better. The woman who is apathetic about her relationship has probably already checked out.