After My Husband’s Death, I Was Shocked to Find Out We Were Never Married and I Cannot Claim Inheritance

By keeping our marriage unofficial and setting up these trusts and accounts, I ensured that no matter what happened to me, you and the children would be safe. The house is in a trust with your name on it. The children’s college funds are protected. Everything you need is secured in ways that no distant relative or creditor can touch.

I know this may seem strange. I know it may even hurt you to think I never made our marriage legal. But Pat, you are my wife in every way that matters. You are the love of my life. I would do anything to protect you, even if it means you might misunderstand my intentions.

Please forgive me for the confusion and pain this has caused. Please know that every decision I made was out of love.

Forever yours, Michael.